Thursday, May 22, 2008

precious life

so i have been sitting here trying to find the words to say to my friend, and the prayers that could be handed to her. she lost her baby at 22 weeks. she held her in her arms for a few short hours and then had to say good bye just as quickly as she said hello. i am at a loss for words. i know what it is like to say goodbye to a baby you want so dearly and now may 22 will always be a memorable day for her. God wanted this baby to stay with him...he wasn't willing to give her up. is that something i understand? no can't say that i do...does it help me realize that your family is needed to bond with and to care for...my heart goes out to her...i wish i could gracefully put into words what I want to tell her...i wish i could take the hurt and the pain and turn it around for her. i just want her to know that she is well loved and that i am terribly sorry for her loss. i send her the warmest love and the biggest (((HUGS)))that can get to her through the wire.....
may you find comfort and healing in this trying time! may your son's smiles and coos help you through and find the strength to move forward. your strength and fight is admirable and your little girl will always know what a fabulous mom you are and you will forever be her hero for never giving up.

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